Hello friends, my name is OLADELE FEMI, I welcome everybody to my blog . In this blog I will be sharing little knowledge of mine to help people on how to make a living and become a useful person to your family, friends and your country in both financially and academically. My friend you don't need to suffer anymore, because here I will teach you how to make money. If you read this carefully and you pay full attention probably you will gain one or two things.
Today I will discuss on...
* HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE
Under this topic, I will talk about five ways to become a successful In life, before I proceed I will explain the meaning of Life
**WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE**
Everybody has wondered at one time or another why they exist? What brings them to this world, What is my purpose in life? Is there even a purpose in life? If there is, what is it? Actually we have two major kind of people in this world, these are
**GOOD AND**
**BAD PEOPLE**
This major kind of people Is another topic entirely, I will not be able to explain this topic now but very soon I will explain fully to everyone. So is up to you to choose the best for yourself either good or bad.
I'm telling all the readers with confidence that, everyone was born to this world for a purpose, my own talent is different from yours, no one is born with evil or Good character but through the process of your life style probably you will become someone out of this major kind of people. So the purpose of life in some way is to make things better, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience. There are something that are needed to be done before you can become a successful and useful person in life. Here are five tips that you need breakdown before you can move on in life, there are
* IDENTIFY YOUR PASSIONS
How to identify your passions, before someone can Identify his/her passion, you need to take time to work through the process and know that, no matter what, you'll be getting closer to where you want to be. Here are some tips to I identify your passions,
1) START WITH THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE : for instance you went to a shoprite with a strong determination, 'I WON'T BUY ANYTHING' there will be nothing here I want to buy, I don't want to be here, the menu isn’t going to look appealing. You won’t explore it with due time or attention, and it’s unlikely you’ll find something valuable to buy, the same method apply to person who is seeking for passion, if you're doubting or you are convinced that seeking your passions is very hard, you will remain close to possibility and you’ll block the little nudges, pulls, and signals that guide us all. After all, how can you expect to find fulfilling work if you don’t believe it exists? Just made up your mind that you can do what you love or like in your life
II) GET YOUR MENTAL DETECTOR OUT : since you believe that your passions is findable, then time for you think about what you really like to do often, if you are able to figure out you will notice that you have experience about it, then start doing that thing continuously and you will probably become a useful person to yourself and your society.
Iii) LOOK FOR GUIDANCE.
When you look at all the ingredients that matter to you, they might at first seem entirely disconnected. Then look for someone who can help you out, also you may seek for advice from your friends or the who have been into that business of yours.
Iv) EXPECT INSURGENCE : during this period you need exercise patient so you can gain experience about what you want, If you let these voices win, your passion will remain out of your grasp. Instead, look for the fear beneath each supposedly reasonable voice
2. MAKE A LIST OF YOUR GOAL AND What is needed: Be sure to address both short-term and long-term goals; try to think beyond financial/career goals.
Consider which subjects you enjoyed studying in school, and why. This can help give you an idea of what you may be best at or more interested in. Many people feel as if they're adrift in the world. They work hard, but they don't seem to get anywhere worthwhile. The main problem they have Is that, they haven't spent enough time thinking about what they want from life, and haven't set themselves formal goals. After all, would you set out on a major journey with no real idea of your destination? Probably not!
Goal setting is a powerful process for thinking about your ideal future, and for motivating yourself to turn your vision of this future into reality.
WHY DO WE NEED TO SET GOALA
I. Goals Propel You Forward
Having a goals or plan written down in your mind or in your jotter gives you motivation to acheive your goal, There’s a very common pattern that comes with working towards goals that we’re all familiar with: you set your mind to something, you get excited and work like mad, and then motivation starts to wane. Having goals that you can focus on and visualize helps you better connect yourself with your inner desires, and gives you the motivational energy you need to work through periods where your focus inevitably starts to wane.
II. Goals Transform Insurmountable Mountains Into Walkable Hills
In this life, every body have his or her own plan some people want to become a doctor, lawyer, accountant etc, most of us have a big dream that seem impossible to achieve, Its easy to feel discouraged when you’re staring at a massive, seemingly insurmountable mountain.
Perfect goal setting can can help break larger, intimidating aspirations into smaller, more achievable stepping stones. Planning towards these smaller goals not only makes it easier to formulate a definite plan of action that we can start working on right away, but research has shown that hitting smaller milestones provides real motivation and greater contentment.
III. Goals Help Us Believe In Ourselves
Make up your mind without following another person's choice, it really give us strong believe in ourselves, many people choose the wrong path by following their friends choices, they don't believe in their self, Goal setting isn’t just about creating a plan for your life and holding yourself accountable, its also about giving us the inspiration necessary to aim for things we never thought possible. Many people dream about something good and beautiful to accomplish, but only few people ever actually accomplis because they don't have strong determination, Unless you make it a goal for yourself and work everyday towards achieving it, why would you ever believe that you could accomplish it? Unless you see yourself slowly making progress, your dreams and aspirations are nothing more than vague notions floating around in your imagination
IV. Goals Tell You What You Truly Want
There are certainly times where we set goals that don’t really reflect what we want. Sometimes we think we need more money, when really we need a change of environment, or someone to love. Sometimes we think we want more free time, but what we really want is work that we can be truly passionate about. Sometimes we think we want to be alone, but really we need to be around more positive people.
If you never set goals in the first place, how do you find out what you truly want? If you wander through life with vague notions of “success” and “accomplishment”, you might never discover that buying a new BMW isn’t what will bring you true happiness, or that landing that coveted promotion at work will make you miserable because the extra money and fancy title won’t make up for the reduced time with your family.
By asking ourselves what we really want and constantly re-assessing our goals, we gain the benefit of introspection and self-reflection. We can figure out what it is we really want in life – and then we can go out and do it.
V. Goals Help Us Live Life To The Fullest
When you take the time to set goals, you ensure that your life is geared towards getting the most out of every moment. There’s so much to do and experience in life, but many of the things we want to achieve and experience won’t be handed to us – we need to work for it.
Imagine you’re on a vacation. You have a limited amount of time to take in all the sights, sounds, and experiences of a foreign land. Wouldn’t you want to figure out exactly what you want to do and what you want to see? Or would you wander around, hoping to find something interesting? And if you do have some sights and landmarks in mind that you want to visit, wouldn’t you do a little research to find out how to get there? Or would you wander around, hoping that you’ll eventually find the place you’re looking for?
In many ways, life is like a vacation (though it certainly doesn’t feel like it); we’re given a finite amount of time to pursue the experiences we want and then before you know it, its time to go. If you want to get the most out of your precious moments of life, you have to know what you want.
3. LIVE PURPOSEFULLY
Achieve your dreams and be the person you want to be, you will have to start paying attention to your actions. Ask yourself, "Is what I'm doing going to lead me to where I want to be in life?"
If you find yourself constantly bored, daydreaming about the future or past or counting down the minutes, until the day ends, it is probably because you feel disconnected from what you're doing. Consider changing careers or majors to a field that you care about, but remember such a move could have unexpected consequences.
4. Be EDUCATED
education shows you how to make it in life,
education gives you the knowledge, skills, and credibility to achieve your maximum potential. In terms of financial success, statistics have shown that the more education you have (i.e. the higher degree you achieve), the more money you are likely to make.
5. MANAGE YOUR FINANCE
Learning how to manage your money will help ensure your financial stability over time, regardless of your income.
Keep track of your expenses. Review your bank statements often and notice where you spend your money.
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